God gave us a good sense of houmour. It is a gift from God, but almost became a outcast product. Why to make much ado about nothing? Many times, instead of taking things too much to the heart, or letting offence sent on your heart, use this gift. It will help. Just try to have a big laugh! If there is an one way road, and nothing seems to work, simply sit back and enjoy yourself. It is worth it. And never deny the fact, that you want to be part of the party. You want to entertain yourself and others. You do not want to spoil the good atmosphere. No way. Be the one who creates it. God is not against it. He called us to be shiny stars and not pickled cucumber. Just think, you are free.