Be realistic

Be realistic. Begin every day by being ready to face difficulty. Do not daydream. Realtionships have ups and downs. A friend can turn to a fiend. Do not be surprized by anything. God does not want to have neurotic children. Be strong enough to bear all. Be a christian in all circumsatnces, not just when your surroundig is nice. Be nice when they treat you unfair. Be ready to give freedom to your surroundings. The more you want to change people, the more hardened they get. This is principle one. So accept that there are savage, bloodthirsty, and brutal people in this society. All wickedness is present, and we have to face this fact until we live on this earth. Even when the surrounding is unpleasant God has a plan for you. He works in your heart and wants to change you.