A big success, and a big failure

Some say that it takes a big success and a big failure to make it work.
There are couples, who learn to adopt to each other in a marriage. There are other couples who learn this before the marriage. They take their time. They do not rush, until everything is settled. God says never to rush into anything you are not sure about. Talk and get to know each other. See if you can cooperate, and respect each other, be faithful even in the greatest trouble, if you can be patient with each other, if you can love even when you do not understand?! Can you love even when all your dreams are scattered? Can you bring sacrifices to see each other, everyday? When you see the naked truth, it is your decision. If yes, the marriage will be much easier, because they fought before. Take your time. Others who started a family, ignorant, it was not be much easier for them either, because they had to learn the lessons in the meantime.
If you took your time, do not overpray. Act.
And from then on, live so, that you will never have to say sorry.